There is a story about a man, estranged from his father; their relationship was practically nonexistent. While growing up father and son did not communicate much, and when they did there was little if any agreement, but there was usually resentment and hurt feelings. And now years had passed since they had spoken at all.
One day the man decided to take his young son to visit with his grandfather, now a troubled soul who lived a reclusive life. When they arrived, the man’s father was sitting on the steps of his home; he had a serious and menacing demeanor and looked like a beaten man in what can best be described a bedraggled state.
The man with his young son approached his father, he said hello dad it’s been a while, and I’d like you to meet your grandson. He introduced the boy and said his name is Michael. I thought it was about time you met him. The father stared at his son, and then at his grandson, and said leave me alone, I’m not interested. He then got up, walked to the front door opened it and disappeared inside. The man was saddened and deeply hurt, hoping perhaps things might have changed; he also felt embarrassed, having his son witness this rebuke.
As they walked toward their car, the young son was confused, and looking up at his father asked, dad why did we come here? The father was still upset with what happened but said to his son I knew this might happen Michael, but I felt it was time you met your grandfather, and hopefully have him in your life. But don’t fret and be angry; know that every person, even the most miserable, deserve a chance and can be redeemed.
The father continued, I also needed you to know this is where I came from, and that your grandfather was an often angry and disillusioned man, and that life growing up was difficult, but no matter what your circumstances, you alone have the power to determine your own destiny; it is entirely up to you. And as you grow older, you will look back and ask the same questions that most of us have; did I make the right decisions and choices in life, and did they have a positive effect; did I make a difference, and what have I accomplished.
Although somewhat farfetched, perhaps we can use this life’s lesson, as an analogy. In November of 2016, the American people voted into office one Donald Trump, A political novice, and presented him to the nation as their new president. His supporters, of course, accepted this rather larger than life bombastic character, but many others, like the grandfather in our story, grimaced and cried out and walked away angry and disgusted wanting nothing to do with what they considered this charlatan and usurper.
But like the father in our story, who explains to his son his reasoning for the visit, the people who elected Mr. Trump said to the nation with their vote; we came from a time when the political establishment in unison with the last administration made life in America difficult, divided, and uncertain. They tried to tear down and undermined traditional institutions, the values, and principles and the sanctity of life and marriage that have been the foundation of the family and the nation, and they further secularized an already devolving culture.
Some will take away that the grandfather in our story represents the Left in America and that would be accurate. But as the father explains to his young son, hopefully, one day your grandfather will seek and find redemption, and come to see the light, and accept that although we have differences, there’s no reason we can’t come together for the good of the family, and a nation.
As they drove away, the father looked in the rearview mirror, and watched as the home he grew up in vanished from sight. He sighed and thought to himself if only things could have been different. Then he looked at his son and smiled, and said don’t be disheartened, perhaps your grandfather will come to forgive and realize: there was time my son and I had harsh words, / we argued and we fought, / but all that’s water under the bridge, / we’ve been angry too long, life’s too short.